WMT: Maybe he’s lost interest?

I apologize for the lack of posts in the past week. Many things are happening at work and in my personal life that have thwarted my attempts at writing a decent post.

5 Warning Signs. “Warning signs of what?” A man isn’t that into you. Men may date and even sleep with women after their attractions start to wane. Again. Sad, but true. Men, it’s better to be straight with her and rip that band-aid of quickly. Don’t drag it on. Ladies, here are 5 signs that he’s feelings may be dying out. This list will pertain more to dating singles than any another group.

1. He no longer likes to do things that you enjoy. This sign is hard to decipher and requires a bit of explanation. For example: If he always enjoyed cooking as do you, this does not pertain. I am referring to activities you may have introduced him to. Perhaps, you introduced him to country music and he seemed to enjoy it (although he hadn’t listened to it previously). The truth is, he probably just enjoyed spending time with you and didn’t care much for the music. If he is suddenly annoyed by the Dixie Chicks playing in your car, he may be feeling a bit distant as well. This isn’t really a blanket rule, because sometimes you may introduce him to things he genuinely likes. He may continue to like these new things but still have faltering feelings for you. But as stated, this can be a warning sign.
2. No cuddling after Sex. This is for those of you who are sexually active. #2 is a bit intertwined with #1, but a bit more specific. Men really do enjoy cuddling, but not with someone they no longer have feelings for. They may still enjoy having the sex, but the cuddling is no longer welcome.
3. He starts defining the relationship in restrictive terms. Men would rather not talk about “where this is going”. If he starts bringing this up in a positive way, he’s probably really into you. However, if he starts saying things like, “It’s not like this is an exclusive relationship.” or “Well, we haven’t been dating that long.” or “I don’t think we are that serious yet.” Guess what? He’s probably already thinking, “Open relationship”, “We won’t be dating much longer”, and “We aren’t serious at all.”
4. He’s suddenly very busy. He may have not been very busy at the beginning, but suddenly he is unreachable. Anytime you voice a disappointment in not spending enough time together, he retorts that its out of his control because he is so busy. Now, there are times when people get busy at work. Right? However, I don’t know if we are ever so busy we can’t call. It’s understandable to be busy for a few months and skip some dates, but if he’s too busy to call. Head’s up!
5. Mr. Angry-Sensitive. Men love to not have that break-up conversation! We hate it. So, Mr. Angry-Sensitive can be a ploy to avoid that conversation. What is Mr. Angry-Sensitive? Well, this is when the man becomes very upset about an off-hand remark or opinion. He will construe it into a personal attack against him, his family, his religion, etc. AND the clincher? He will make it seem that the relationship is over because of you.
   Example: Lady: “I don’t really like Mexican food.” Man: “Wow. You are saying you don’t like the entire cuisine of Mexico? Thats a pretty harsh statement. I didn’t realize you were so racist. I’m not sure how I feel about that.”
   Okay, thats a bit extreme. But I know this kind of thing does happen. Any of you lady’s have an experience like this?

Again, these can be some signs that he’s lost interest in you, but not a definite or exact. I would love to hear some of your dating stories about signs you have picked up over the years.

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