What men think about your insecurities.

Insecure. To some degree, every person has a few insecurities. Men have insecurities just as women have insecurities. So, what does a man think about your insecurities? Many times a woman’s insecurities are not immediately evident. She won’t come out and say, “I think I have too much tummy fat, so I hide it with heavy sweatshirts.” However, when a woman does show her insecurities verbally or by action, what does a man think? We think you are crazy! Seriously, ladies. If we are spending time with you or asking you on a date, we obviously have positive feelings towards you. If whatever you are insecure about bothered us as much as you feared it did, would we even show interest in you?

“Ugh I feel fat.”
“But you aren’t fat”
“You don’t know. I’ve gained so much weight.”
“Well, I have eyes and I’m not blind. I don’t think you’re fat.”
“Ugh. You don’t understand women.”

Very true. We as men have no idea why women obsess about their “fat elbows” and “unequally sized breasts”. Why? Because we dont’ know what you are talking about. How can you have fat elbows???

Now, I understand that you can’t just change how you feel about these things. Sometimes, you’ve told yourself these lies for so long you actually believe them. So, men have to be supportive and tell you over and over, “You aren’t fat. You are beautiful.” Unfortunately, guess what? There’s a limit. Men will get fed up with validating insecurities that they can’t understand.

A lack of positive self-image will sabotage your relationships.

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